I Turned My $100 Dollars Into A Day To Remember
--Posted by anonymous on Sep 21, 2008

When I was a young girl I spent a lot of time with my Grandparents, and they lived in a community specially for the elderly, and near to an old peoples home. I remember myself and my sister,playing our instruments for them, encouraged by my grandparents. They used to tell me that if some one elderly engages you in conversation, to make time for them, as you might have been the only person they got to talk to that day. I've never forgotten this, and still spare time to chat with an elderly person if they do engage me in chat. So when I saw "make a suggestion for how your community would benefit from a $100, I immediately` thought of the elderly.

As one of the lucky people to win a $100 dollars for my community, once converted to UK currency it worked out at £56, I then contacted my local community centre, and explained about HelpOthers, and what we as a group were trying to do. I then told them how I had made a suggestion, that if I had a $100 dollars to benefit my community, that I would use it to benefit the elderly who were alone, and had no family.

I then asked them if there was someway I would be able to do that through them, and they said that they did do things for the elderly at least once a week," could we do something a bit special?" I asked them " so they would all benefit from this donation", " yes of course we could do a buffet and dance" the centre Manager told me.

I thought this was a fantastic idea, and a very worthwhile use of the money, and so it went towards food and beverages to cater for about 30 elderly residents. A poster was put up to announce the buffet and dance and it was arranged for an afternoon. They also put on bingo with winners being able to win a hamper or a bottle of spirits.

I went up to see how it was all going and it turned out to be a very enjoyable afternoon, and I was very pleased to see that the people I wanted to benefit, had a wonderful and enjoyable time. It reminded me that you are never to old to have fun, and I knew my grandparents would have been very proud of me, and the feeling I had that I had helped to make this day for them, was overwhelming and very fulfilling. It also helped me to remember, that whatever is going on in the world, we can and do make these kind of differences to peoples lives, with an "Act of Kindness", but we never realise that the biggest kindness of all, is seeing the difference we make anonymously and without condition.

I was very pleased to represent our group in this way, and to be able to show that you don't need to give a lot to get a lot, because what you get back is priceless!

 

 

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On Sep 24, 2009, MadeUSmile says:
How sweet. Our elders are so often forgotten. Yet they deserve so much special attention. Good for you to think of them! I also applaud your grandparents for instilling such an important lesson in you! Very wise!

On Sep 24, 2009, BumMiggity says:
You are never too old to have fun! Great way to bring ripples of kindness in your community!

On Sep 26, 2009, Yammuna says:
Tis is really nis , tis shows ur kindness to such peoples. Thnkx and glad abt ur grandparents too for making u engage in tis program indirectly!

On Sep 27, 2009, Aurelia says:
You are very special! I am sure your grandparents are smiling from wherever they are right now. :) I hope you've inpsired others for you certainly have inspired me. ~aurelia

On Sep 28, 2009, Ningel Awour says:
Thank you so much for changing my view towards the elderly. I sure needed your example, this was timely and i promise that when i go back to my village, that i'll do something good for my grandmother.

On Sep 28, 2009, Veena says:
Nice thought!

On Sep 29, 2009, Paul says:
I am thrilled to understand that there are youth even today who value the advises of the elders. Your obedience to understand the values of your grandparents and implement them. I strondgly encourage one and all to do their part in some special joy to the elderly not just once; as i am strong believer in caring the elderly and run a home for the destitute elderly.

On Oct 1, 2009, glorioski says:
It is so true, a little can go an awful long way, whether it's a gesture or a small amount of money. And the enjoyment this group of elderly residents got from gathering together to share old memories is priceless. What we can gain from engaging with the elders in our community can't be learned anywhere else sometimes. I know that the things i learned from my grandmother about her generation and our ancestry. When she left us i immediately grasped at the conversations we had that were unique to us alone. Priceless.

On Jan 31, 2010, Pat says:
Very interesting. Who thinks of themselves as getting "old"? I went to a thanksgiving sit down at a spiritual community. Many lots of 20 year olds around me. Not one said a word to me. Indeed, they kept their back to me the whole time and chatted with their friends. I wondered if i was invisible or something? Strange. Thanks for showing the other view of inter-generational get-togethers.

On Feb 6, 2010, alexanicole says:
How sweet of you. It is sometimes hard to remember but as stevie wonder said to a call-in donor on the recent haiti telethon - "a lot of littles make a lotta lots" - everyone just giving $5 to a good cause amounts to quite a bit.

On Sep 21, 2008, JuneBug says:
Oh that IS priceless !!! Thank you for taking the time to share this wit us...It was like I was there !!! :)

On Sep 21, 2008, grammagussie says:
Im so glad you chose the elderly. Thay need lots of Love and care as they wind down the winter of their years. Thank you for sharing your story.
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On Sep 22, 2008, whatthe says:
That is so lovely. That is just how memories are made. My Nan told me once that sometimes you have to make memories happen and sometimes they happen by chance. This is one special memory that you have made for so many people! Thats just wonderfull! ;) xxx



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